Rashedat Oshodi MB BCh

One of my favorite quotes is by G. Emerson Dickman III Esq, "For 'exceptional' parents, there is nothing more burdensome than false hope, and few things more valuable than reasonable expectations. Expectations establish the standard upon which successes and failures are measured. Successes validate our choices and our parenting skills, allowing us to experience pride and happiness in the accomplishments of our child with disabilities (instead of constant disappointment due to inappropriate expectations). In turn, we are empowered to meet our own needs, and the needs of our spouse and children. Truth and honesty are the greatest gifts a parent can be given.